We have had many discussions about it and it really just comes down to him being ready and content that our relationship won't go sour once everything is committed and official.
My guy just came out of a divorce and it will be a year since his divorce next month.
) , enjoys hanging out with my family and doing thoughtful things for them,and introduces me to everyone in his life....friends,coworkers, ect. his last relationship was pretty ugly and he apparently got cheated on.
they lived together and she would dump her kid on him and go party and cheat..with some of his friends.
" It sounds to me that in every other way except speaking the word, he's committed to you, but he just has some weird hang-up about saying it.
If this is the case, then why not just keep up this "non-serious" serious relationship?
if you are looking for something more and want it now, and can not be patient..
If you like this guy, you will wait for as long as it takes..unless he is a lying jerk and has 10 women behind my back...i highly doubt this. I have been regularly dating a guy for almost 2 months now.he's usually at home at his apt when we're not together and he loathes the bar/party scene with a passion..fact he has some social anxiety. things are amazing when we are together..he calls me everyday..since he's been away on christmas vacation for 2 weeks.things are amazing when we are together..he calls me everyday..since he's been away on christmas vacation for 2 weeks.in this time period, he has brought me home to meet his family (5 hours away) for his grandmothers 80th birthday party, he bought me an extremely meaningful present for Christmas (a motorcycle jacket that matches his exactly...which is special bc thats his baby!i dont even bring this commitment issue up when we are talking... he talks about how he really does want to be with me, feels like pushing me away and pulling me closer at the same time, and that i have all the qualities that are imporant to him...that he's just not ready "quite yet". I dont pressure him at all and its not about sex bc we are not even having it!(i told him i wasnt sleeping with him unless we were officially dating).I guess the real question I have is, how many other girls is he seeing at the same time?Or put another way, what would substantially change, day-to-day, if he decided to "commit?Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...