My wife doesn't like to give head—and I really don't like getting it from her, since she doesn't like doing it.
It is, however, one of the things on my list for my quarterly pro session.
This gives me some sexual variety and keeps her from feeling threatened by my becoming emotionally involved with a third party.
She went on to say that she is considering changing from poly to nonmonogamous. I'm certainly nonmonogamous, but I've never thought of myself as poly. Confused Over Lines Inside Names I would describe the difference as googleable, COLIN.
But since you asked: A nonmonogamous person has sex with their partner and others; a poly person has or is open to having committed and concurrent romantic relationships.
This week, I discovered he had hidden a Fleshlight from me. He really gets off when I call his ass a "pussy," which I'll do to turn him on, but I find it pretty weird. And if you would never knowingly date a bi guy, tell him he deserves better.
He also tells me he gets off on the thought of the two of us fucking a woman together. A relationship question that doesn't involve sex: Occasionally when two people live together, they bump into each other or one may get in the way of the other.