You kind of have to since you often make a plan several days or even a week in advance thanks to everyone’s crazy busy schedules.How you deal with confirming a plan totally depends on you.Do you really want to tell someone your deepest, darkest secrets... That is okay with you because if you are looking for a real relationship and an actual connection, you can take things slowly.A clingy person probably will not want to take things slowly because he is going to want to make you his girlfriend instantly.You don't want the guy that you're dating to remain a mystery to you forever. The whole point of being in a relationship is getting to know another person and sometimes, even knowing them better than you know yourself. If you're chatting with a guy online and haven't ever gone on a date with him yet and he's telling you his entire life story, that's a serious red flag. Either he's totally lying or if he's telling the truth, and the latter is only an even worse option. You have to get to know someone in a normal, natural, logical way.
But make sure that he's not super clingy about making the first date plan. It's pretty normal in this day and age of online dating to confirm before the first date.
You definitely have to become a detective so you don't end up in the creepiest situation ever.
While you can't always guarantee that you're going to wind up with a normal person, there are some ways to protect yourself.
While there's definitely no way to know if a first date is going to be awesome or awful ahead of time, there is a way to know if someone is going to be clingy AF.
It's funny because us women are often considered super clingy... Some are clingier than you could ever expect someone to be, and it's definitely not fun.